Couples Counselling Collective
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The Ultimate Community for aspiring and experienced Couples Therapists wanting to excel in working with couples.
This exclusive monthly membership is designed to empower you to lead the field in Couples Therapy.
Why is it so hard to start working with couples, even after completing training?
You’re not alone.
Many therapists feel intimidated by the complexities of couples work.
Managing two people’s emotions, fitting sessions into a busy schedule, and overcoming mindset hurdles like self-doubt or fear of failure.
This is why we designed this membership to address exactly these challenges.
It’s a space for therapists to gain clarity, confidence, and practical tools, making it easier to transition from training to real-world practice.
1 / Group Supervision Sessions
Two 1.5-hour drop-in group supervision sessions every month.​
Tuesdays: Second Tuesday of each month, 9:30 AM - 11:00 AM.
Thursdays: Fourth Thursday of each month, 7:00 PM - 8:30 PM.
Supervision is delivered using Lottie’s unique Milan Method, which focuses on getting straight to the heart of the question the therapist wants to ask, without requiring extensive client background details.
2 / Mini Trainings
Two pre-recorded up to 30-minute mini trainings every month.
From Lottie: Focused on Couples Therapy techniques.
From Fi: Focused on Business, Marketing, or Mindset.
These bite-sized trainings offer practical insights and tools you can apply immediately.
3 / Bonus Features
Monthly Q&A Sessions: A 30-minute live Q&A session every month, hosted by Fi & Lottie to address your specific questions and challenges in real-time.
Exclusive Member Perks: Early access to new trainings and discounted offers on courses and workshops by Lottie and/or Fi.
Resource Library: Access a growing library of tools and resources for personal growth or use with couples in your private practice.
Thriving Community: Connect with like-minded therapists and counsellors in a private Facebook and WhatsApp Group. Share insights, ask questions, and build meaningful relationships.
Here's What You Get
Meet Lottie
Sex & Intimacy Specialist
I have worked with couples for many years, and over that time I have had to think outside the box. I describe myself as an enabling therapist allowing for my clients to feel heard.
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​Through the Couples Counselling membership I will give you a strategic plan on how to work with couples through the mini trainings, guiding you on how to think on your feet with loads of practical recommendations all in a inclusive and directive coaching style.
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I deliver supervision using my unique Milan Method, which focuses on getting straight to the heart of the question you want to ask, without requiring extensive client background details.
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By working together, you will not only enhance your skills in working with couples but also build the confidence to position yourself as a leader in your field, empowering you to grow both personally and professionally.
Meet Fi :)
Mindset & Business Coach
Hello, I'm Fi, a dedicated Business and Mindset Coach for Counsellors. My expertise lies in empowering Therapists to transform their mindset, master marketing strategies, and achieve financial growth.
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Integrating my coaching expertise with Lottie’s invaluable counselling insights creates a dynamic partnership. This powerful synergy provides comprehensive support for those new to working with couples, helping you confidently navigate the challenges of integrating new clients into your practice and setting the foundation for long-term success.
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I cover your business identity and shadow self, aligning your authentic self with your values and purpose. We look at target audiences, emphasising the need for refreshed copy and a robust online presence.
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As a trained Mindfulness Life Coach, I will also be bringing in breathing techniques, powerful visualisations and mindset tools to help you step into the Leader that you are.
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Lottie and I are also mother and daughter, which adds a unique and deeply connected perspective to our work together.
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Will therapy work for me/ us?It will, if you are ready for change. Therapy is an opportunity to look into your relationship and at yourself increasing your awareness, to enable you to work through difficult times and seek resolutions.
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Will we stay together?The honest answer to this is I don’t know and I couldn’t answer this for you. However, when you come to work with me, you will develop the awareness to work out if this is the right relationship for you. If you choose to continue or separate, you will understand what happened so you don’t continue the same pattern here or in your next relationship.
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How do you work?I call myself a progressive therapist, by this I mean I am challenging and directive. Each week we work together we will see a subtle change within the relationship. A part of this change requires you to commit to homework, which is an essential tool to enable you to bring your relationship in line with your values. Regular reviews, or as I call it ‘relationship MOT’s’ assist to consolidate work completed, to refine and move on with the progression of the relationship.
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What will I/ we get?A safe space to talk and to listen to each other. An opportunity for conflict resolution accompanied by psycho-educational material. A therapist that understands the relationship process and is driven to help dilute the crisis. My motto for my working with me is this is the ‘place of truth’.
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How much do you charge?I charge £95 per hour and £130 per hour and a half.
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Can I/ we see you face to face?I offer face to face sessions in a COVID secure premises as per government guidelines. The space allows for social distancing. However, for your visit you will be required to wear a face mask. I also offer a PPE visor which can be used in addition to your mask if you wish, as well as your own tissues and water. There are also toilet facilities.
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Where are you located?For face to face sessions you can visit me in my clinic located in Otterbourne, Hampshire. Otherwise, I am available on Zoom. Meeting via Zoom can be just as effective as meeting face to face, as long as you are able to find a suitable space and the time without interruption for the session.
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How long will I/ we be in therapy?This depends on your commitment, dedication to homework, goal achievements and regular attendance. I am a facilitator of change so I encourage the conscious coupling process to continue from home. Therefore, what I find works best is weekly session for the first 6 weeks, followed by fortnightly sessions and then monthly. In the first six weeks we will establish a bespoke program and script which is directed at working towards better communication, arguing well and being in a conscious relationship with intentionality. After the first 6 weeks, to allow time for homework to be completed the sessions are spaced fortnightly and then monthly. This is a guide and may change depending on different factors.
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Is there hope?Yes, absolutely. I come from a place of love and hope, let’s give you the opportunity to take the time to work out what has gone wrong to highlight where things can be improved. With my directive way of working we will be able to bring a depth to your relationship which will bring about the change you seek.
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Can we come to you if we want to break up?Yes, I facilitate conscious uncoupling to allow for the separation without fracturing the whole family. If we can lessen the impact on the children, grandchildren and grandparents then this has got to be a good thing. Working this out for you both is essential for personal growth and an opportunity to not repeat behaviours that do not serve you in the long run.
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Can I/ we talk to you about my/ our sex life?When we talk about relationships, we intrinsicly include all aspects which includes your sex life. I offer an open space for us to discuss intimacy and sex on many levels. This includes but is not limited to; dysfunctions, addictions and intimacy issues. I personally find talking about sex really easy and I want to be able to give you the confidence to do the same.
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You are a Psychosexual Therapist, what does this mean exactly?As a psychosexual therapist I am able to acknowledge, not only the mental and emotional challenges you may be facing but also the physical, which may require further medical intervention. I am able to refer you onto your GP to ask for the required blood tests to eliminate any physiological problems.
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As a couple, can we be seen separately by you?As part of your contract you can be seen separately. When you are seen separately this will be a confidential space. I will always ask you for something useful from our separate sessions that can be taken into your couples session.
STILL GOT QUESTIONS?
We completely understand, every investment in your practice is important.
We want you to feel confident and excited about joining the Couples Counselling Collective Membership. If you still have questions or need more information, feel free to email us directly! We’re here to help you make the best decision for you and your practice.